Is loving more than one spouse wrong ? If its wrong why do we have these feelings for more than one spouse ? Is it Lust and our mind is playing tricks on us? Or is it really love but u can't decipher who you love more. How do you measure love for someone? It's so easy to walk away from those you don't love or have feelings for. But it's hard to walk away from those you love & have feeling for? Is it a sign that you need or want them in your life? Or is it a sign that it was better to had loved & lost rather then not have loved at all? What is love? Is it an emotion that draws 2 individuals together ? Or is it a action that makes you wanna do for that individual ? Is it both? If love is meant to be a beautiful thing amongst those in love why are there so many divorces and break ups? Are people marrying for the wrong reasons? Maybe they aren't truly in love to begin with. Lust can seem like love until it is put to the test ! People may take marriage as a game but yet those words that are said mean everything. "Do you take this person to love & cherish through thick and then, for richer or for poorer, til death do us part........" If your not really in love with someone to that extent why even get married? Are you forced to marry that person? Are they putting pressure on you to do it? Are you trying to satisfy that person by giving them what they want but not necessarily what you want? Why should you feel pressured if marriage & love are a 2 person sport that should be entered into equally. Why does marriage have to feel like a prison ? Why is a wife referred to as "The Ol Ball & Chain" ? List can make you feel in love that's for sure. Make you feel good inside, make u wanna do special things for each other because in the back of your mind you want to be rewarded with sex & kisses. But if those kisses & sex come to a halt will you still continue to do those special things for one another? Or will you disappear once you get rewarded for your special gestures? Men & Women are definitely not alike in terms of mental thoughts & processes but yet they can both agree to sex & lust & some times love. As the decades come to past true love seems to disappear without a trace and lust is becoming the new thing. The part that I find interesting is the ones that really are in love or have feelings don't share their feelings with the one that matters but yet tells a friend which isn't helping the situation. Yea everyone is scared of rejection or the feeling that the one you have feelings for doesn't feel the same towards you but you have to take that leap of faith to find out. Once you take that leap you'll see how that person will open up and that locked door to their feelings gets opened and welcomes you in. No need to front or lie because that only becomes a problem further down the line. Always be yourself & share your real feelings. You'll be amazed what you'll find out & your time will not be wasted if you two are on different pages.... #MrWest #TrueLove #Love #Lust #Sex #Marriage #JustMyThoughts
People are constantly throwing their lives away or wasting it not doing anything with it but taking up space...... Why?
It's sad to see people who want to make something of theirselves but can't because of their environment or because the system won't help them to better theirselves, so they get discouraged and resort to other means of survival. Knowing that their are people in the world with those kinds of living conditions why would someone who has an advantage to make something of themselves not want to capitalize on it? Instead they waste their life while others that are really trying to make something off their self can't because someone that previously had that chance messed it up Big Time and made it harder to achieve.
Everybody dies, but not everyone lives to see life or even take a breath of it. When I go to the morgue to pick up infants and still borns who haven't even taken a breath I just think to myself. Why do people take life granted ? Life is a blessing. To wake up and see another day is a blessing. Don't waste your life following others who are leading you down the wrong pathway. Be your own leader ! Why wouldn't you want better for ya self. Take control of your life & make something out of it. Leave your mark on earth !
People go to jail for murder and an array of many other things, for what !? What gives you the right to say anyone doesn't deserve to live, what gives you the right to take anyone's life away from them ? Now you sit and rot in a cell for the rest of your life instead of living it out in the open making something positive of yourself. Live life smarter.
They say the best things in life are free ! So why are you stealing and robbing people for their possessions ? Throwing your life away over material items. That doesn't make sense. Sure we all want the luxurious life of finer things but you have to earn it. Work hard for it so then you can enjoy the results of your hard work. Let that be your motivation to wanna make something of ya self or to make a better life for yourself. It's possible obviously if others are doing it. So the question is why can't you !? ........ Don't take your life for granted or waste it..... Get up and make it worth living. Get up and make something out of yourself ! There is no reason you can't !